What do you do when you want to adopt but your partner does not? My husband and I have 2 children. Tragically, one of them died a year ago from brain cancer. My son is 8 and would really like a brother or sister. I would love to be able to add to our family this way but my husband is dead set against it. Maybe I am being selfish, but I would like the experience of raising 2 children. And for my son to have someone after my husband and I are no longer here. Thoughts???