AdoptSpeak - The Social Network of the National Adoption Center
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Started by gary watts edwards. Last reply by hal barry Jun 6, 2011.
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Started by Hal Kaufman Apr 2, 2010.
Hello. It looks like all the posts in this group are older. Is anyone considering single parent adoption? I am and would like someone to talk to, as well as bounce ideas off of.
Wishing everyone a fantastic New Year. Just renewed my homestudy and studying up on attachment and other issues common to adoption. Pursuing open adoption. Looking forward to learning more from people here.
LaToya - Thank you! I was a step-mom and foster parent for a while so I understand attachments and bonding but there's almost more to learn. Guess I'm a little afraid of the age - going for a teenager. I just see them as needing someone too...maybe even more so. I hope your second adoption smooths out and is a wonderful experience for you!
Hi Tammy! Welcome... My only advice would be to be patient and persistent. I have adopted 1 child and I am in the process of adopting a second (which is legal risk and has me pulling my hair out). Make sure you do a lot of research on attachment and bonding. That is important. With my oldest son, who is now 6, we had to do a bit of attachment and bonding exercises. Give lots of hugs and reassurance.
With only one more class to go - I can finally start to see adoption as reality. Any great advice for a single parent looking to adopt an 8 and up year old?
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